"Love is the flower of life, and blossoms unexpectedly and without law, and must be plucked where it is found, and enjoyed for the brief hour of its duration." - D.H.Lawrence
"Love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs. Being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers' eyes. Being vexed, a sea nourished with lovers' tears. What is it else? A madness most discreet, a choking gall and a preserving sweet." - William Shakespear
Just what is love? Some says it's the action of showing care, some says it's the action when you say "I love you", others says it cannot never be described.
WARNING: To people being in love, please refrain from carry on reading.
Love, to me, is just something you experience and gives you a sense of insurity, a sense of belonging, happiness, blah blah blah for just a few weeks, or months. Then, it brings you a whole lot of hurt, despair, dissapointment, jealousy, etc.
I've been seeing people, alot of people, saying sweet stuff about their lovers on facebook, msn, or even talked to me about it. But after a few days or week, they are troubled being in love and posting emo things on facebook and blog etc.
Seriously, what's good being in a relationship or being in love? The end result is still the same: being hurt. Why fall into the trap if you know it's so damn deep and it will take you a whole lot of time climbing back up? Why hold a knife close to your heart if you know it will cut or stab you anytime and it will take a whale of time recovering the wound?
Yes, you may say I'm afraid of being in love. I'm admitting it. Seeing my friends getting hurt by love, I can't help being afraid. Being hurt by love once, I can't help being afraid.
My heart is closed now. I would have long been in love if I left it open.
Friends had been talking to me about the problems they faced in love. I am quite surprised myself too, that I have not been discouraging them to fall out of love, but on the other hand, I'm encouraging them to continue loving someone. Now, I guess I shall warn people not to talk to me about their love life. I am afraid I would just make things worse. Or I already had.
I'm not saying love does not exist, or I don't believe in love blah blah blah, or at least at this stage. Loving someone or even being loved by someone at this age, invites hurt. Growing older and experience love by then would be much more easier and happier as no one would be stopping you from loving someone to concentrate on your studies or work.
To those who are experiencing love, good luck! :D
fell in love with music @ 10:10 PM
